It may sound cliche, but actually writing down what you are grateful for is one of the most important things you can do to bring JOY back. I know what you're thinking, "I don't have time to do this!" Well, what I have started doing is in the morning, before I even get out of bed, I write down or think of 3 things I am GRATEFUL for from the previous day. I try to make sure I write them down at some point, but I for sure think about each one. Not only does this set my mind up to think positive thoughts from the very first, it also reminds me of the good in my life. When events, things, and people, mean more to you than just a name, a mindshift happens within you. Being grateful even for the small things can make a big impact. Try it- What are you grateful for today?
Our lives are inundated with stress, cell phone tones, social media messages, work demands, and just the daily tasks of running a home. The hardest part is turning the focus inward so we can "recharge." It's time to Schedule some time just for you - yes put your “me" time on the calendar, and plan ahead. Do you need to journal, listen to a podcast, plan dinner, create movement in your body, or just be still with your Creator? Filling your cup first is not a selfish act- it is necessary in order to be the caregiver God created you to be.